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Wedding Reception Insanity

When you start planning the wedding, first thing that pop up in mind is… WHERE IS THE WEDDING??

well, our ceremony is fairly easy, we decided to have our ceremony at Toronto CityHall. So one phone call, Done!

Now, Wedding Reception, where is it gonna be?

We looked up couple places

1. Metropolitan Hotel in Toronto
-we originally wantted there, but I realize the room is a bit too big for 60 people, and the price is not the cheapest in the world

2. Thompson Landry Gallery in Distillery District
-Beautiful gallery in the district, but after looking up all the quote from the caterer, now I really have to rethink it.
-why? Because to get a caterer to cater a place that is not “restaurant-oriented”, you are paying for those:

  • venue rental (TL gallery wants $1500 rental from 6pm to 1 am+$350 cleaning fee+$350 staffing fee+GST(5%)=$2310)
  • security fee ($28 per hour and minimum 4 hours)
  • liquor license=$25
  • insurance for the event=$50 to $60
  • $30.00 non-dancing or $50.00 dancing fee for the right to play background music during events (this is an Ontario wide SOCAN rule)
  • Permit to setup patio fencing outside the gallery =$70
  • Catering kitchen setup fee= around $2000 to $2500
  • Catering furniture rental fee= around $600?
  • 15% landmark fee on food and labor
  • Staffing fee (Chef, site coordinator, bartender and servers are between 28 to 32 bucks and hour, and usually minimum 6 hours)
  • The actual food runs between$40 to $60
  • We can bring our own alcohol
  • Hors D’oeuvres is around $12 to $15 per person
  • See the list of the quote I got from the caterers…

    Those quote does NOT including Alcohol and the rental of the venue , and all other misc expenses..
    Isn’t that insane???

Seriously.. it’s too much!! too much!! Like we are spending 20K in a event for just 60 people? that’s just ridiculas!

3. Fairmont Royal York
It’s another hotel on Front street. It’s fairly luxurious, but they have fairly decent menu with pretty good pricing, so we’ll go check it out this friday
This is Royal york’s wedding package

  • packaged dinner range from $185 to $210 (taxes and gratituity included)

4. Pantages Hotel
It’s fairly new and modern hotel compare to Royal York or Metropolitan, so I am going to check this out later too
This is Pantages Hotel Wedding Package

5. Old Mill Inn
Apparently alot of people got married here because it’s victorian housing and humber river surrounding..
I am going to take a look of this as well. I got the wedding packages here from Old Mill. It’s a good pricing.

The wedded couple get to stay in their room for half price, and then 15% off for the guests..

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Wedding-Dress-O-Rama

If I had enough time before my wedding, I would totally get my wedding dress on Ebay.

After going to 5 wedding dress stores, all the dresses started to look the same for me :|

I had a particular look of the dress in mind, so it didn’t take too long to find one.

Anywayz, here’s the list of wedding dress stores that I had been in the past weekend.

Vogue Sposa Bridal Boutique
304 Danforth Ave., Toronto
(416) 466-8884
Mon, Tues, Fri & Sat: 10am to 6pm Appointments Preferred
-high end wedding boutique store, it’s a price tag that goes above my budget (most of the dress in there are over 1000 CDN)

The Dressroom
http://www.beckersbridals.com/
269 Danforth Ave.
416.466.6842
-Very reasonable pricing (average under 1K, but not much brand name wedding dresses)

Backers Bridals & Formal
http://www.beckersbridals.com/
387 Danforth Ave.
416.463.6601
-highend pricing (average over 1K!)

Taipei Love Forever
http://www.taipeiloveforever.com/
175 West Beaver Creek, Unit#1&2, Richmond Hill
905.709.0516
-This is a wedding all-inclusive package company owned by Taiwanese. They rent out and sell the dresses. Reasonable pricing (nothing goes above 1300, and goes as low as 450). This is the place that I tried on the dress that I liked… however I didn’t get the dress here.

Best For Brides
http://www.bestforbrides.com
566A Sheppard Ave. West
1.877.373.7702 (toll free)
-Awesome pricing, and you can even bargain the pricing to have the GST and hemming included. The store is actually on top of another store near the corner of Bathurst and Sheppard Ave. Extremely small, and the staff are too buzy to help you as well. However, I found the exact same dress that I tried on at the Taipei Forever, and the dress is 300 dollar cheaper!! So I end up buying the dress here!

Ritche
http://www.ritche.com/
1662 Avenue Road
416.463.6601
-highend pricing (average over 1K!)
-Awesome services, you get a change room of your own, and you get a representative bringing you dresses of your liking.

and.. here’s my dress, enjoy :)

my wedding dress!!

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Engagement Ring (This is how everything started)

Engagement Ring
Alright, I know this might seem to be a shocker to those who know me for a long time.YEP, I AM GETTING MARRIED!yeah, I know. Alex and I met last year in July. We fell in love, and next thing I know is that he proposed to me in Feb. (20 min before we are catching the bus to go to our Asia trip on Feb 1)So then, we went on 3 weeks vacation in Taiwan and Thailand. We had a blast there!! We had alot of delicious food and stayed in all kinds of luxury hotels!We decided to get marry on the date of Aug 8 this year, yep, it’s 08.08.08!! (As chinese, we love the number 8 because it has the same sound as ‘fortune’)

I know it’s a bit of rush to get married, but I think it’s do-able for sure!!!!

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